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Basic Discipleship
Written by Dr. Lester Hutson

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PHASE 2                INITIAL GROWTH

 

SESSION 10

 

THE LIFESTYLE GOD’S SPIRIT
WOULD HAVE YOU LIVE

 

                This exercise is closely related to the previous one.  Both deal, in part, with the Holy Spirit, although this one is centered more on the practical application of His control of the life of a believer.  Here application is stressed over new data.

                A main objective of this lesson is to focus the attention of your disciple on separated, holy living, those characteristics which grow spontaneously from Holy Spirit control of one’s life.  This kind of lifestyle is the will of God for every believer.  The Spirit’s book, the Bible, makes that very clear.  A godly, separated life will automatically develop in your disciple the more he submits himself to the Spirit’s control.

                The absence of holiness in one’s life testifies against him that he is not submitted to the Holy Spirit.  Such a lack destroys one’s testimony and results in many bitter consequences, none of which is God’s intent for His own.  This stubbornness and rebellion against the control of the Holy Spirit by a believer is called by the Bible quenching the Holy Spirit.  This exercise attempts, in a non-negative way, to bring into focus some things which evidence a deaf ear or resistance of the Holy Spirit.

                Discipler, you should work this exercise and carefully evaluate your own lifestyle.  It is doubtful that you will see in your disciple a more holy, separated lifestyle than yours.  You are-his model, his tangible flesh and blood showcase of how Christianity really works.

                Please do not expect too much too soon of your disciple.  Growth takes time, as evidenced in children.  If you push too hard, you may cause your disciple to back away.  You will notice on the discipleship overview circle at the beginning of this manual that the building of character starts here in Phase 2 of this training and progressively develops as we move through these paces.

                This exercise is one of several designed to stimulate that character-developing process.Do not squander your time with your disciple.  You are in his life to give attention to his spiritual development; not to talk sports or other things.  By this point in the discipleship process, you probably have developed a warm relationship.  As good as that is, it can derail you from your main purpose.  Enjoy each other, but mainly around the Lord.  Keep your focus on his discipleship.  Constantly evaluate his progress and give your best to his continuing accelerated growth.

                As always pray with him.  Before you part, give him BD#l1

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          We have explored the awesome fact that the Holy Spirit of God lives within you.  He’s there to help, to deliver you from the manifold perils of life which can wreck and ruin your life. He, along with the Bible and the church, is one of your three greatest spiritual resources, provisions of God for your protection, success and welfare.  Trusting Him for strength and yielding to His written instructions in the Bible is the way to the realization of the fullness of His power in your life.  If given the control of your life, He will produce precious fruit.  Read Galatians 5:22-23.  Name the nine spontaneous results, which the Holy Spirit will produce in your life, once He is given control.

 

                    1.          Love                       4.          Longsuffering        7.          Faith

 

                    2.          Joy                          5.          Gentleness            8.          Meekness

         

                    3.          Peace                      6.          Goodness              9.          Temperance

 

          Wouldn't you like to have these qualities in your life? Yes. Remember, they are spontaneous in lives where the Holy Spirit is in full control. What does spontaneous mean? Meditate on that word in light of The Fruit of the Spirit promised in the Galatians reference.

          The Holy Spirit will not trump our own wills and force us to do what He wants us to do. Yielding to Him is a voluntary matter.

          We can resist Him and rebel against His direction in our lives.  From  I Thessalonians 5:19, what is the word the Bible uses to describe resistance to the Holy Spirit’s control of our lives? Quench.

          With the fact in mind that the Holy Spirit seeks to direct our lifestyles

through the written instructions set forth in the Bible, work the following exercise, connecting the part of the body with the verse which gives the Holy Spirit’s instructions for its proper use. 

 

THE HOLY SPIRIT’S INTENTIONS FOR YOUR BODY

 

                                  1. Eyes                          (  4)          James 4:8

 

                                  2. Mouth                       (  1)          Proverbs 4:25

 

                                  3. Feet                           (  8)          I Thessalonians 4:3

 

                                  4. Hands                        (  2)          Ephesians 4:29

 

                                  5. Tongue                       (10)          I Peter 3:3-4

 

                                  6. Ear                             (  3)          Proverbs 4:26

 

                                  7. Bowels                       (  5)          James 3:2-10

 

                                  8. Sex organs                  (  9)          I Timothy 2:9-10

 

                                  9. Dress code                 (  7)          I John 3:17

                               

                                 10. .Emphasis in life          (  6)          James 1:19

 

Grade yourself on the above exercise.  On a scale of one to ten, in light of the scripture, give yourself an individual number on each of the ten items.  Then add the ten numbers to get your score. What was your score? _______.  Do you see a connection between your score and The Fruit of the Spirit in your life?

 

TWO VERY IMPORTANT WORDS FOR YOUR SUCCESS

 

“SANCTIFY”   AND   “HOLY”

 

          Look up "sanctify" in your dictionary and write the definition here _______________________________________________________________________________________________.

 

          Look up "holy" in your dictionary and write the definition here _______________________________________________________________________________________________.

 

          To help you better understand the words "sanctify" and "holy" from God's perspective, read the following verses and fill in the blanks.

 

HOLINESS

 

1.       I Peter 1:16.  God is holy, and we should be, too.

2.       Malachi 2:11-12.  Describe God's attitude about unholiness.

3.       II Corinthians 7:1.  We are to perfect holiness in our lives.

4.       Ephesians 4:22-24.  We're to be known for holiness.


SANCTIFICATION

1.       II Timothy 2:19-22.  How useful are unsanctified vessels?

2.       I Peter 3:15.  In a practical sense, who does the sanctifying?

3.       John 17:17.  How do we sanctify ourselves? By obeying His Word.

4.       II Corinthians 6:14-18.  The key idea here is separation.

 

RATE THE FOLLOWING PRACTICES IN TERMS OF HOLINESS

 

Sexual Infidelity

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Smoking

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Cussing

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Cheating on a Test

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Drunkenness

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Drug Abuse

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Viewing Pornography

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Missing Sunday Church for a Sport

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Visiting a Night Club

Unholy <1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Getting Even

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10 > Holy

 

Drinking a Beer

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Taking Office Supplies (Goods) from Work

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Failure to Work Hard on Your Job

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Failure to Pay Your Debts in a Timely Manner

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  >Holy

 

Flirting With Someone Other Than Your Mate

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Neglecting Your Family

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Irresponsibility

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Hypocrisy

Unholy <  1 2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Dancing

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Social Drinking

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Cheating in a Business Deal

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Lying to Protect Your Interests

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

Distortion in Favor of Your Family

Unholy <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Holy

 

 

EVALUATE YOURSELF

Are you under the control of the Holy Spirit or are you quenching Him?

Rate yourself.

 

Quenching Him <  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  > Under His Control

 


          Remember that He wants to control you for your own good.  Sinful self-will has so many bitter consequences.  Some are immediate; most are long-term.  Submission to the Holy Spirit’s control, which spontaneously produces an increasingly separated and holy life, brings deliverance from many evils, in both the near and the distant futures.

          To maximize the power of the Holy Spirit in you and claim His delivering power in your life, you must listen to and obey Him.  Your lifestyle must be controlled by Him. Obedience to Him will both separate you from many things (which would hurt you); it will also add to your life many things that will enrich you.

 

"It Does Make a Difference What You Believe"